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7 Things I Wish I’d Known About Men Before I Married By Tricia Goyer

7 Things I Wish I’d Known About Men Before I Married Knowing these truths would have helped me prepare for marriage and be a better wife. By Tricia Goyer   Growing up with my stepdad and younger brother I thought I knew a thing or two about men. While I knew not to change the channel during a football game, not to serve quiche for dinner, and not to attempt to fix a broken doorknob with a rubber band, there were a few important things I missed—things that would have helped me prepare for marriage and be a better wife. Here is my list: 1.   Men can't read your mind.  If you “hint” at wanting help, men will not get it. “I wish I was taller so I could reach that canister” sounds like a simple statement. Asking sweetly works much better. Say something like, “Honey, when you have a minute can you reach that canister for me?” 2. Men don't like to be rushed with new problems as soon as they walk in the front door.  Providing time to unwind works much better. L