Sometimes, I give lectures and seminars
to groups of women around the country.
Mostly small groups of less than 50
women, but I still have a lot of fun
meeting them and listening to their love
problems -- and giving them
life-changing solutions!
After giving these talks for several
years, I've learned something very
important -- the way I speak to my
audience has a big effect on how they
respond to me. And certain words have a
much bigger effect on them than others.
It's not just me, either -- I've also
realized, especially during our open
forums, that virtually every woman in
the world "talks" to herself. This
self-talk is often unconscious, and --
unfortunately -- it's also often sad and
depressive. Many of my clients look at
themselves small -- "I'm not pretty,"
"I'm not sexy enough," "I'm not as smart
as I want to be."
and you know what happens? That's the
message they bring to the men they meet.
"I'm not attractive enough to be your
girlfriend, but I hope you'll accept me
and love me anyway."
Ladies, words are POWERFUL. And the
words, the emotions, the messages you
bring across to the men you meet
actually DICTATES how he's going to
respond to you.
Do you want him to respond to you in a
positive way?
Then learn the right things to say!
And in today's letter, I'll be giving
you three powerful phrases that help
build your bond with the man in your
life, and also make him more likely to
RETURN your love.
Ready? Here's the first phrase. Feel
free to write this down!
ROMANTIC WORDS #1 - "JUST CURIOUS."
Surprised? These two words have helped
my clients and readers turn first dates
with new men into fantastic,
heart-to-heart meetings that blossomed
into wonderful relationships!
But how does it work?
Simple -- I'm pretty sure it's hard to
ask personal questions during the first
date, but when you add these two words
after your question...
"So what do you do for a living? Just
curious."
"What do you do for fun? Just curious."
"Are you single? Just curious."
...instantly, answering your question
becomes SO MUCH EASIER for him!
Without these two powerful words, your
questions may come off as too forward.
He might start thinking that you're one
of those needy, desperate women who rush
into relationships with the first man
who comes their way.
But when you're "just curious," he'll
think you're just that -- just curious
-- and he gives you an answer!
Practice saying these two words after
your questions. It will help build the
connection between you and him, and can
lead to a longer, more satisfying
conversation -- instead of the usual
awkwardness that accompany most first
dates!
ROMANTIC WORDS #2 - "TELL ME MORE."
As you go on more and more dates with
him, the conversation evolves.
If you started out by talking about your
jobs, your living arrangements, and your
interests, then later on, you'll start
talking about your goals, your values,
and your love life.
This is where the phrase "tell me more"
is at its most powerful.
When he's telling you the deeper, more
intimate details of his life, he
actually wants you to listen and
appreciate him.
And when you say, "Please tell me more,"
then you show him that you're genuinely
interested in his life!
And when he knows you're interested, and
when he knows that you actually value
his views, he's going to like you more
and more.
Conversation is a great way to build
that deeper, more emotional bond that
your budding relationship needs!
What's more, later on, he's going to ask
YOU about your goals, values, and --
perhaps most importantly -- your love
life. Since you showed your interest in
HIS life, he's going to show an interest
in yours, too.
And that's where things REALLY get fun!
ROMANTIC WORDS #3 - "HEY, HARD WORKER."
Before you comment on "Hey, hard
worker," let me explain for a bit!
At the beginning of your relationship,
it's a good idea to compliment him
lightly. A good way of doing this is by
showing your approval of his appearance:
"I love your suit!"
"I like the color of your eyes."
"That's a nice tie. You sure know your
way around fashion!"
Later on, though, as your conversations
get deeper and more intimate, it's a
good idea to show your approval of the
deeper things, too.
For instance, if he's an entrepreneur --
"Hello, hard worker!"
If he's a fireman, policeman, or
paramedic -- "Hi, hero!"
If he's into community service -- "I
love how you spend so much of your time
helping others. It's so noble."
When your compliments move from the
physical to the more emotional, it means
that your relationship is maturing
nicely. #DO YOU KNOW YOU CAN IMPROVE THE LIVE OF POOR AND DISABLED PEOPLE BY DONATING $1.IF YES TEXT LOVING TO 77948 TO DONATE $1 OR MORE.HAPPY NOEL AND NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE.
It also means things are going right,
and if you keep saying the right words,
your relationship can develop into
something that will last a lifetime!
Sure -- I know I've mentioned in some of
my previous newsletters that actions
speak louder than words.
But trust me, words speak pretty loudly
themselves -- and, as I've shown you in
this newsletter, they have the power to
move the relationship in the right
direction.
So make your words count!
WORDS ARE POWERFUL
Yes, words are VERY powerful.
Knowing the right things to say is a
great addition to your "love toolkit,"
and I highly recommend you develop this
crucial dating-and-relationship skill.
Trust me, I've met so many women who
lost their boyfriends and husbands
simply because of a careless or
thoughtless word. I don't want you to
make that mistake in your OWN love life!
As you get better with your conversation
skills and choices of words, you can
come up with your own style.
Trust me, coming up with your own
personal style of flirting with men is
one of the most enjoyable dating skills
you'll ever learn!
If you want to get started, here's the
secret -- it's all about knowing what
makes men tick.
When you know exactly what makes men
"graduate" from physical attraction to
TRUE LOVE, then the words will come easy
and naturally!
Want to know what makes men tick?
Want to know how to make him truly LOVE
you?
Want to know the right words to say to
him -- every single time?
Then I invite you to learn all the
secrets in my Unmask The Male Mind
e-book collection. Visit the website
below to learn every little thing you
need to know about his mind:
And after you master his mind, go right
ahead -- and win his HEART!
to groups of women around the country.
Mostly small groups of less than 50
women, but I still have a lot of fun
meeting them and listening to their love
problems -- and giving them
life-changing solutions!
After giving these talks for several
years, I've learned something very
important -- the way I speak to my
audience has a big effect on how they
respond to me. And certain words have a
much bigger effect on them than others.
It's not just me, either -- I've also
realized, especially during our open
forums, that virtually every woman in
the world "talks" to herself. This
self-talk is often unconscious, and --
unfortunately -- it's also often sad and
depressive. Many of my clients look at
themselves small -- "I'm not pretty,"
"I'm not sexy enough," "I'm not as smart
as I want to be."
and you know what happens? That's the
message they bring to the men they meet.
"I'm not attractive enough to be your
girlfriend, but I hope you'll accept me
and love me anyway."
Ladies, words are POWERFUL. And the
words, the emotions, the messages you
bring across to the men you meet
actually DICTATES how he's going to
respond to you.
Do you want him to respond to you in a
positive way?
Then learn the right things to say!
And in today's letter, I'll be giving
you three powerful phrases that help
build your bond with the man in your
life, and also make him more likely to
RETURN your love.
Ready? Here's the first phrase. Feel
free to write this down!
ROMANTIC WORDS #1 - "JUST CURIOUS."
Surprised? These two words have helped
my clients and readers turn first dates
with new men into fantastic,
heart-to-heart meetings that blossomed
into wonderful relationships!
But how does it work?
Simple -- I'm pretty sure it's hard to
ask personal questions during the first
date, but when you add these two words
after your question...
"So what do you do for a living? Just
curious."
"What do you do for fun? Just curious."
"Are you single? Just curious."
...instantly, answering your question
becomes SO MUCH EASIER for him!
Without these two powerful words, your
questions may come off as too forward.
He might start thinking that you're one
of those needy, desperate women who rush
into relationships with the first man
who comes their way.
But when you're "just curious," he'll
think you're just that -- just curious
-- and he gives you an answer!
Practice saying these two words after
your questions. It will help build the
connection between you and him, and can
lead to a longer, more satisfying
conversation -- instead of the usual
awkwardness that accompany most first
dates!
ROMANTIC WORDS #2 - "TELL ME MORE."
As you go on more and more dates with
him, the conversation evolves.
If you started out by talking about your
jobs, your living arrangements, and your
interests, then later on, you'll start
talking about your goals, your values,
and your love life.
This is where the phrase "tell me more"
is at its most powerful.
When he's telling you the deeper, more
intimate details of his life, he
actually wants you to listen and
appreciate him.
And when you say, "Please tell me more,"
then you show him that you're genuinely
interested in his life!
And when he knows you're interested, and
when he knows that you actually value
his views, he's going to like you more
and more.
Conversation is a great way to build
that deeper, more emotional bond that
your budding relationship needs!
What's more, later on, he's going to ask
YOU about your goals, values, and --
perhaps most importantly -- your love
life. Since you showed your interest in
HIS life, he's going to show an interest
in yours, too.
And that's where things REALLY get fun!
ROMANTIC WORDS #3 - "HEY, HARD WORKER."
Before you comment on "Hey, hard
worker," let me explain for a bit!
At the beginning of your relationship,
it's a good idea to compliment him
lightly. A good way of doing this is by
showing your approval of his appearance:
"I love your suit!"
"I like the color of your eyes."
"That's a nice tie. You sure know your
way around fashion!"
Later on, though, as your conversations
get deeper and more intimate, it's a
good idea to show your approval of the
deeper things, too.
For instance, if he's an entrepreneur --
"Hello, hard worker!"
If he's a fireman, policeman, or
paramedic -- "Hi, hero!"
If he's into community service -- "I
love how you spend so much of your time
helping others. It's so noble."
When your compliments move from the
physical to the more emotional, it means
that your relationship is maturing
nicely. #DO YOU KNOW YOU CAN IMPROVE THE LIVE OF POOR AND DISABLED PEOPLE BY DONATING $1.IF YES TEXT LOVING TO 77948 TO DONATE $1 OR MORE.HAPPY NOEL AND NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE.
It also means things are going right,
and if you keep saying the right words,
your relationship can develop into
something that will last a lifetime!
Sure -- I know I've mentioned in some of
my previous newsletters that actions
speak louder than words.
But trust me, words speak pretty loudly
themselves -- and, as I've shown you in
this newsletter, they have the power to
move the relationship in the right
direction.
So make your words count!
WORDS ARE POWERFUL
Yes, words are VERY powerful.
Knowing the right things to say is a
great addition to your "love toolkit,"
and I highly recommend you develop this
crucial dating-and-relationship skill.
Trust me, I've met so many women who
lost their boyfriends and husbands
simply because of a careless or
thoughtless word. I don't want you to
make that mistake in your OWN love life!
As you get better with your conversation
skills and choices of words, you can
come up with your own style.
Trust me, coming up with your own
personal style of flirting with men is
one of the most enjoyable dating skills
you'll ever learn!
If you want to get started, here's the
secret -- it's all about knowing what
makes men tick.
When you know exactly what makes men
"graduate" from physical attraction to
TRUE LOVE, then the words will come easy
and naturally!
Want to know what makes men tick?
Want to know how to make him truly LOVE
you?
Want to know the right words to say to
him -- every single time?
Then I invite you to learn all the
secrets in my Unmask The Male Mind
e-book collection. Visit the website
below to learn every little thing you
need to know about his mind:
And after you master his mind, go right
ahead -- and win his HEART!
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