4 Steps to True Love By Alexandra Fox

Are you in a relationship with a man right now... or do

you secretly wish you were?

 

 

No matter what your situation is right now, in the

Unforgettable Woman community, our goal is to help you

find true love and happiness with the man of your dreams.

 

 

On the journey to find true love and happiness, there are

a few challenges. Most people give up and never overcome

these challenges. Today I would like to share with you how

to deal with the 2 biggest challenges women face in a

relationship....

 

 

Challenge #1:

Things Will Get Boring.

 

 

The first few months of a new relationship are almost

always sizzling hot. But after things settle down, the

thrill fades away, and the relationship becomes a

little... boring.

 

 

If you've been in a failed relationship before, you know

how it goes!

 

 

So how do you deal with this challenge?

 

 

First of all, don't panic. All relationships go through

the quieter, less exciting stage after the first few

months. And it's easy for the couple to miss the "good

times" they shared at the beginning.

 

 

I've studied this problem for years, and noticed that

women tend to do one of two things...

 

 

First, some women try to "relive" the good times by doing

the things she used to do with him at the beginning of the

relationship... such as asking him out regularly, texting

him constantly, and trying to have hours-long phone

conversations with him.

 

 

Unfortunately, this tends to RUIN everything...

 

 

Here's why. When the relationship becomes more routine and

predictable, and when the guy becomes quieter and more

passive than he was before, it's actually a good thing.

 

 

You read that right. The guy actually LIKES it like this.

 

 

Why? Because this is the time when he "gets down to

business," and starts planning the future with you. And he

needs a little time and space to do so. That's why the

relationship gets "boring."

 

 

But when you try to "bring back" the good old days, it

actually shakes him out of his concentration. And yes, he

won't like that... and he'll start withdrawing.

 

 

My advice? Don't try to "relive" the past with him, and

don't complain that the relationship is getting "boring."

 

 

Let me suggest a different approach...

 

 

Don't relive the activities. Relive the FEELINGS.

 

 

Here's the BIG secret: Guys actually don't fall in love with

what you do. They fall in love with how you make them FEEL.

 

 

If he loves you and commits to you, it means you make him

feel like no other woman can.

 

 

And that's your key: Keep the feeling alive.

 

 

Did he fall in love with you because you made him feel

appreciated? Admired? Completely at ease? Whatever those

feelings were, keep them alive... and DON'T RUIN THINGS by

trying to make the relationship exciting again.

 

 

Keep the feelings alive... and the excitement will come on

its own!

 

 

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Challenge #2:

You'll Argue Over Things.

 

 

Secondly, on your path to true love and happiness with the

man of your dreams, you'll inevitably have a few

disagreements, some misunderstandings, and the odd

argument every now and then. That's normal.

 

 

What's NOT normal are arguments that last for days...

grudges being secretly held... and "keeping score" in the

relationship. These are the POISONS of relationships, and

must be avoided at all costs!

 

 

Here's why. Today, a lot of people think a good

relationship has to be 50-50: The guy has to give 50%, and

the woman has to give 50%... so everything's fair, equal,

and just.

 

 

Actually, it's when you try to make everything "fair,

equal, and just" that the arguments start!

 

 

Why? Because the moment your 50-50 slips into 51-49, or

55-45, or 60-40, and so on... then feelings start to get

hurt. Grudges start to form. You start to think, "Doesn't

he know I'm doing more than he is? The NERVE!"

 

 

See what I mean?

 

 

Let me suggest a different approach. Instead of trying to

hit a "50-50" balance, aim for "100-100."

 

 

Instead of a "give-and-take" relationship, build a

"give-and-give" relationship with him.

 

 

A "give-and-give" relationship is one where the couple

freely, willingly, and joyfully gives whatever their

partner needs... so that in the end, there's no need to

"take" anything from each other.

 

 

Isn't that so much better than keeping score?

 

 

Now, some of you might be wondering: "But Alex, didn't you

say it was wrong to give him everything because he'd take

you for granted?"

 

 

Very good, ladies! You're absolutely right - it's wrong to

give him so much... when you're just starting out as a

couple.

 

 

At that stage of love, you should be revealing yourself to

him slowly, keeping him interested, so that he'll keep

chasing you and not get lazy.

 

 

But when you're married (or at least seriously considering

to be), then THAT'S when you start giving your all to each

other. When you're married and you're still keeping a few

things secret from him, then you're doing it wrong!

 

 

I know, I know - it can be confusing when you're not

familiar with the "rules" that come with each new stage of

the relationship.

 

 

Normally, we'd have to learn the rules the hard way -

through trial-and-error - over a few years, as we go

through a few relationships. But most of us don't have

that kind of time or patience.

 

 

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