3 Ways to Save Your Relationship by Alexandra Fox

Many years ago, I volunteered at an

orphanage. One day, one of the kids came

to me, telling me his toy car had

stopped running. The batteries had died,

so I had to replace them.

The problem: I couldn't find a

screwdriver to open the battery

compartment. So I tried to "MacGyver" it

- I tried using a butter knife, a coin,

and a paper clip. Nothing worked.

After an hour of trying, I was ready to

get a hammer and smash the darned thing

open.

But at that moment, the boy tugged at my

sleeve and said: "Miss Alex, I found a

screwdriver."

I took the screwdriver. Less than a

minute later, the toy car was working

again, and everyone was happy.

What's the moral of the story? 

Just this: Broken relationships are like

broken toys. To fix them, you just need

the right tools.

May I make a bold statement? ANY

RELATIONSHIP CAN BE FIXED.

Any relationship. No exceptions. No

matter how broken or damaged or strained

it is - with the right tools, it can

work again, and everyone will be happy

again.

Unfortunately, many great couples today

are unable to give themselves a second

chance.

Why? Simply because they're using the

wrong tools.

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ARE YOU USING THE WRONG TOOLS?

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To fix anything, there are a million

"wrong tools" out there... and just a

handful of "right tools."

And in dating and relationships, these

are 4 of the most common "wrong tools"

to fix a problem:

Wrong Tool #1 - Waiting For Him To

Apologize.

When we get into a spat with our man, we

often wait for him to fix things. We

think: "Why should I apologize first?

He's the guy. It's his job to fix

things."

Does this mentality fix things? ...No.

Wrong Tool #2 - Saying What He Doesn't

Want To Hear

When we argue with our guy, we often

nag, accuse, criticize, insult,

blackmail... or simply give him the

silent treatment. We want him to feel

GUILTY, and maybe knock some sense into

him.

Problem is: How often has this approach

REALLY worked?

Wrong Tool #3 - Begging Him To Come Back

Sometimes, when we DO apologize first,

we do it in a begging, pleading way,

trying to gain his sympathy.

Unfortunately, if he already broke up

with you, this approach will make you

look needy and desperate... which, as we

already know, is uglier than ugly.

And finally:

Wrong Tool #4 - Focusing On The Problem

After a breakup, we usually spend a week

(or much longer) wondering: "What went

wrong? What if I did this - would it

have made a difference? If I did that,

would we still be together?"

Dwelling on the past never helped

anyone, and it certainly won't help fix

your relationship!

But that's the sad thing. Many of us use

these wrong tools over and over and  over

again. So the relationship becomes an

even BIGGER mess.

And then, when things finally fall

apart, we give up and whine:

"All men are JERKS!"

"Love is a lie!"

"I'm going to be single FOREVER!"

None of that is true.

You just used the wrong tools. Period.

Have you ever used the wrong tools

before?

Are you using the wrong tools RIGHT NOW?

If so, let's wrap up this Newsletter by

fixing the problem with...

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ALL THE RIGHT TOOLS

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Here's a couple of questions to think

about:

Why did the generations of our

grandparents and great-grandparents

enjoy a super-low 10% divorce rate

(compared to a disturbing 45% today)?

How did so many couples back then stay

together for 50, 60, 70 happy years?

Here's an actual answer by a grandmother

who had been happily married to her man

for 65 years:

"We were born in a time when if

something was broken, we would FIX it,

not throw it away."

In other words, you need the RIGHT TOOLS

- such as the proven relationship-fixing

tool

Right Tool #1 - Apologizing Anyway.

To fix a problem, it doesn't matter who

apologizes first. So might as well get

the ball rolling by reaching out, right?

Besides, what's more important to you...

your pride, or your relationship? ;)

(More of this tool in Bonus eBook #2 - 

9 Crucial Things To Say To Get Him Back) 

Right Tool #2 - Saying What He 

Needs To Hear

If you REALLY want to connect with a

man, you have to know how to speak in

his "language" - otherwise, it's always

going to be a one-sided discussion.

Right Tool #3 - Instead Of Chasing,

Create Space.

Attracting a man into a life isn't about

chasing him - it's about turning the

situation upside-down and making HIM

chase you.

And after a break-up, the easiest way to

do that is to create some "space" in

your life to invite him back in.

The details are all in Secret #8 of my

77 Secrets To Save Your Relationship.

And finally:

Right Tool #4 - Focus On The Solution.

In love and life, whatever you focus on

will grow. So why focus on the problems?

Why focus on whatever caused the

breakup?

Instead, focus on the solution. Millions

of happy couples have fixed their

troubled relationships in the past - 

Over the years, I've compiled  the proven

solutions, successful strategies, and

RIGHT TOOLS that happy couples have

used. And now, they're in the most

comprehensive problem-solving eBook

collection for women - my 77 Secrets To

Save Your Relationship.

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