What's the worst thing that could happen
when you're in love with a guy?
Without a doubt, it's when you figure
out he loves you too... but only as a
FRIEND!
In other words, you've been
"friend-zoned." And it's one of the most
painful, most frustrating, and most
humiliating places to be in the dating
game.
But what if he hasn't been totally clear
with his feelings yet? How do you know
if he REALLY only sees you as a
friend... or if he's just hiding his
real feelings for you?
Here are some of the signs you're in the
friend-zone:
(1) He prefers hanging out with you in a
group, and not alone.
(2) There's no hint of romantic tension
between you.
(3) He talks to you about the other
girls in his life.
(4) He says you'd make some lucky guy
REALLY happy.
Ouch... that hurts!
And I know how it feels. I've been there
myself. And I've received quite a number
of e-mails from you guys, asking me the
same question:
"Why do I ALWAYS get friend-zoned?"
Well, here's something you'll like to
hear...
If you keep getting friend-zoned by the
guys you like, it's likely NOT your
fault.
It's NOT. Okay? So don't let it ruin
your confidence!
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WHY IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT
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Think about all the handsome, capable,
"husband material" single men you've met
in your life.
You know they'd ALL make great
boyfriends, great husbands, and great
fathers to your children if you ever
ended up together.
But do you feel IN LOVE with every
single one of them?
If not, do you even feel ATTRACTED to
every single one of them?
Of course not. Right?
You admire them, sure. But they're just
"not your type."
Well, guess what... this thing goes both
ways.
No matter how attractive or smart or
"wife material" you are, there will
always be men out there who think you're
"not their type."
You're not ugly, or dumb, or any of
that. You're just not their type.
Or at least, not YET. (More on this
later!)
So what's the best thing to do when
you're "friend-zoned" by a guy you're
seriously in love with?
Well, you have two choices...
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CHOICE #1 - GET OVER IT
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The first choice is to just get over it.
Accept the fact that he doesn't feel the
same way for you, and just move on.
Move on, meet new men, start dating
again, and maybe find an even better
match.
I know - that doesn't sound like too
much fun. That's why you have a second
choice:
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CHOICE #2 - MAKE HIM LOVE YOU
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Your second choice is to actually CHANGE
his mind - make him stop seeing you as
just a friend, and start seeing you as a
potential LOVER.
Now I know what some of you are
thinking:
"But Alex, you said you should never
FORCE a man to love you!"
Very good, ladies! And you're absolutely
right - you can't beg, convince, or
"trick" a man to love you.
But you CAN influence him!
How? With what I call the "art of
seduction."
Now, I'm not talking about manipulating
his feelings to have sex with you. I'm
not talking about acting like a slut
just so he'll start looking at you as
more than just a friend. That's NOT what
I'm talking about!
When you SEDUCE a man, you do it on
three levels:
#1 - The "physical" level, where you
make a few changes in the way you move
and dress. This "unlocks" his attraction
for you, and makes him start seeing you
in a different way;
#2 - The "intellectual" level, where you
connect with his MIND in a much deeper,
more intimate way; and
#3 - The "emotional" level, where you
connect with his HEART - and that's when
he falls TRULY in love with you.
In my eBook collection, "Datin g An
Emotionally Unavailable Man," I teach
you these and other in-depth ways you
can connect with him... in a way that
makes him see you differently.
It doesn't matter if he friend-zoned
you, or if you're not his type, or if he
just "isn't ready for a relationship."
If you connect with him on these three
levels, he can't help but see you as
more than just a friend!
Here are just some of the things you'll
be able to do once you read the secrets
in my eBook:
(1) Want to know how to make an
emotionally unavailable man commit to
you? Chapter 8.
(2) Want to know the right and wrong
places to meet commitment-ready men?
Chapter 9.
(3) Want to know how to build a
relationship that lasts a lifetime?
Chapter 11.
What's more, I also include three free
BONUS eBooklets in the collection, and
they're all about:
(1) How to escape emotionally
unfulfilling relationships (Bonus Report
#1)
(2) Want him to stop meeting and
flirting with other girls? (Bonus Report
#2)
(3) Want to know if there's still
"something better" out there for you?
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