Should You Date Your Polar Opposite in 2018? By Alexandra Fox

Would you rather date a man who matched your

personality... or who is the opposite of you?

 

 

It's an age-old debate in dating: Whether "same feather"

couples are more likely to succeed than "opposites

attract" couples, and vice-versa.

 

 

As far as successful relationships go, "same feather"

couples have a slight advantage. Since they think alike,

they're better able to solve problems as a team.

 

 

But at the same time, here's a warning...

 

 

Don't make the mistake of thinking, "Okay, from now on,

I'll only date guys who match my personality."

 

 

Why? Because many of us end up JUDGING men by thinking:

"Hmm, he hates Italian food, but it's my favorite... so I

guess I should stop seeing him..."

 

 

Or: "Hmm, he disagrees with my preferred political

leaning, so I should stop seeing him..."

 

 

Which is sad, because - if you'll notice - you're letting

your MIND choose who to love.

 

 

And remember, love isn't a MIND thing.

 

 

It's a HEART thing.

 

 

And when someone tugs at your heartstrings in that

special, unexplainable way... even if he's not exactly the

"same feather" as you... then you'd better not judge him

right away!

 

 

Believe It Or Not,

Opposites Can Be Happy Together

 

 

That's right - even "opposites attract" couples can lead

happy, lifelong relationships. There are hundreds here in

the Unforgettable Woman community!

 

 

These smart, successful "opposites attract" couples

simply realize something that other, less successful

couples don't:

 

 

"Opposite" couples don't face more challenges.

They just face DIFFERENT ones.

 

 

Did you catch that?

 

 

Here's an example. For "same feather" couples, their

strengths can become their weakness... because if they

rely too much on their "sameness" to make the relationship

work, then the relationship runs the nagging risk of

becoming boring and routine.

 

 

And when that happens, one or both of the partners are

tempted to seek excitement elsewhere.

 

 

Right? It's sad, but true!

 

 

On the other hand, "opposite" couples face DIFFERENT

challenges. Mostly, they risk getting into

misunderstandings and arguments.

 

 

And not surprisingly, misunderstandings are a lot easier

to solve than cheating. Right?

 

 

You simply need to remember a few things when starting

and sustaining a relationship with a man who's your

exact opposite.

 

 

If you'll ever date guys like that (or if you're seeing

one RIGHT NOW), keep these in mind:

 

 

#1 - Are you willing to prioritize each other over your

personal beliefs? 

 

 

...Because it's when you let your religious, political, or

personal preferences become MORE IMPORTANT than your

relationship with him, that's when the breakup starts.

 

 

Believe me... simply trying to "win" an argument for the

sake of winning can be TOXIC to your relationship. The

damage potential just gets a lot BIGGER as you argue over

sensitive issues.

 

 

Remember, what you focus on GROWS. And if you focus on

your differences instead of your similarities... guess

what you'll get more of?

 

 

#2 - Are you willing to "censor" sensitive topics from

the household completely?

 

 

Even the smallest misunderstanding can erupt into the

biggest relationship-breaking problems, so it's best NOT

to bring it up in the first place.

 

 

For instance: If you have political differences, change

the channel when political issues come up on the news.

 

 

Or if someone brings up a sensitive topic over dinner,

have the willingness to say: "I'm sorry, but we don't

discuss politics/religion/social issues in this home.

But we can talk about it later at another location

if you want..."

 

 

Censoring certain topics from household conversations is

an effective way to prevent it from happening

completely... and it's easy to do when you've satisfied

Condition #1.

 

 

That's it! When you and your man can satisfy these

conditions, you'll be well on your way to being one of the

few happy, successful, lifelong "opposite" couples in

the world!

 

 

Now Here's a Little Something

For the Single Women Reading This...

 

 

If you're single right now, then the wish of getting a

boyfriend this 2018 probably crossed your mind a

few times.

 

 

And right now, you might be wondering: "Am I better

off dating a 'same feather,' or should I see someone

DIFFERENT?"

 

 

Here's my answer: Why not both?

 

 

Isn't that the point of dating: To find the absolute BEST

match for you, whether he's a "same feather" or "opposites

attract" kind of guy?

 

 

If you agree, then I'd like to help you out by offering my

Single Woman's Guide to Playing the Field

eBook collection.

 

 

It's my complete workbook on meeting new guys and getting

them to FREQUENTLY ask you out... without feeling guilty

about it, and without spending so much money to do so!