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Four Things You Should Know About Divorce By Jemimah Macaday

We've fallen out of love" and "We just aren't meant for each other." These and other popular clichés have unfortunately been heard between husbands and wives today. If you are a married husband or wife, whether newlyweds or been wedded for years, do you feel the same as the aforementioned statements? Well, you are not alone. BUT! At this moment, try to stop--and think before making a speedy decision to end your marriage. Here are a few but crucial things you must know about divorce. 1. The Financial Problem Marital separation worldwide proved to have injuriously affected women financially. A seven-year European study, headed by Mieke Jansen, exposed that after split-up, the income of women dropped off by 17 percent, while men's income increased by 11 percent. According to Jansen, this is more difficult to most women because they have to find a job to support them and their children's material needs, plus the fact that they have to deal with the e

A review of the book 'four loves' by c.s.lewis

"We need others physically, emotionally, intellectually; we need them if we are to know anything, even ourselves." We hear often that love is patient and kind, not envious or prideful. We hear that human love is a reflection of divine love. We hear that God is love. But how do we understand its work in our lives, its perils and rewards? Here, the incomparable C. S. Lewis examines human love in four forms: affection, the most basic, general, and emotive; friendship, the most rare, least jealous, and, in being freely chosen, perhaps the most profound; Eros, passionate love that can run counter to happiness and poses real danger; charity, the greatest, most spiritual, and least selfish. Proper love is a risk, but to bar oneself from it--to deny love--is a damning choice. Love is a need and a gift; love brings joy and laughter. We must seek to be awakened and so to find an Appreciative love through which "all things are possible." " The Four Loves  deserves t

How to Mend Your Relationship After Cheating - 4 Fool Proof Tips to Get Back With Your Ex By Casey Gentles

Although none would like to consider the idea that there comes a time that they will be tempted to have an affair to someone who is more exciting, this incidence is common. However, no matter how common it is, it should not really be the case. Cheating is wrong. But when you find yourself in this situation, the best thing to do is to pack yourself and learn how to mend relationship after cheating. Here are some of the steps that you can do: 1. Decide if you would like to Be Honest with what you did- this must be a personal decision, consider the values of your partner and the situation you are into. You can keep it as a secret if you simply would like to correct the wrong that you have done. But there are people who would argue that the feeling of being guilty is something that is so hard to deal with thus they will vote on honesty more. 2. Assess the Principles that Lead you to Cheat- there is always a reason for everything, examine your reasoning and motivations. What did allo

How to Mend a Relationship - Even If You Are Doing All the Work By Nygel McVee

How to mend a relationship that has taken a turn for worse can be a difficult task. The task even becomes greater if you are the only one doing the mending. Sometimes it feels like we aren't getting any help from our partner's when it comes to mending a broken relationship. Don't give up hope, things can get better, even if you are the one doing all the work. How to mend a relationship will take time and effort, but here are a few helpful tips that might speed up the process. 1. Try to remain positive . Focus on yourself, and take a break from all the stress of a broken relationship. If your doctor gives you the okay, begin some sort of exercise program that will be quite beneficial in relieving some of the stress in your life. Exercise is a great stress buster, especially while you are trying to mend a relationship that has become strained. 2. Adjust accordingly. Realizing that your relationship has taken a turn for the worse is indicative that t

Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places By Angeline Williams

Love is the most powerful thing in the world with enormous potential to give life. For all the power love holds, we still live in a world that is hungry for love. Everyone is looking for love. We look for love, think we have found it, and then find ourselves disillusioned when the feelings go away. Well what does real love look like anyway? What is the love we all need and want? How will we know when we've found it? Depending on who's doing the talking and what is being expressed, love means different things to different people. Two people might commit themselves to love each other but have different ideas of what it really means. Some think of being in love as an unexplainable feeling that we fall in and out of, especially in today's society. Love can also mean a self-sacrificing action on behalf of others. Some use the word love to refer to a desire for a sexual relationship. Even in everyday conversation we use the word love to refer to a variety of things. For inst

Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places By Angeline Williams

Love is the most powerful thing in the world with enormous potential to give life. For all the power love holds, we still live in a world that is hungry for love. Everyone is looking for love. We look for love, think we have found it, and then find ourselves disillusioned when the feelings go away. Well what does real love look like anyway? What is the love we all need and want? How will we know when we've found it? Depending on who's doing the talking and what is being expressed, love means different things to different people. Two people might commit themselves to love each other but have different ideas of what it really means. Some think of being in love as an unexplainable feeling that we fall in and out of, especially in today's society. Love can also mean a self-sacrificing action on behalf of others. Some use the word love to refer to a desire for a sexual relationship. Even in everyday conversation we use the word love to refer to a variety of things. For instan

Love and Friendship - The Difference Between a Lover and a Friend

Are you a little confused why your friend is acting so strange the past few weeks? Is he somewhat giving you so much attention? Do you feel like he's indeed falling in love with you? You might be having the right thinking about how he acts whenever you're around. Love and friendship are two different things that are often mistaken by some. If things are still unclear and you are a bit unsure about everything, then you must consider these things. Here are some of the most noticeable signs that can classify love and friendship. A friend forgives; a lover forgets. A true friend is someone who will still forgive you no matter how big your mistakes are. Yes, they will forgive you, but they will never forget what you've done. In some ways, you'll get their trust back, but the thing is, they will never easily forget everything. A lover is someone that, despite of everything you've done will still toss all those imperfections out and forget as if nothing had ever hap

What Can Love Create by Michelle Morovaty

Dear Loved Ones, Good Love to you all on this Lovely day. I Love you. Love you. I Love you. Tools for life. What Can Love Create? Love can Create Wholeness within, therefore creating Wholeness without. Love can behold all conditions to stand tall in the midst of all adversity. Love can heal Dis-ease. When in a state of dis-comfort and dis-empowerment love can renew and rejuvenate. Love can and will change the outcome of a relationship. Weather a past experience or a present relationship. Love can energize. Love can electrify our Souls to freedom. Love Is. Is Wonderful on all levels. Unconditional Love is the call of this time. Love takes Responsibility. Love Grows. Love Enhances. Love Reveals. Love generates a New. Love is Power. Love is Care. Love is Forgiveness. Love is Gratitude. Love is to Be. Love is to Have. Love is to Be. Love is to Understand. Love is Patience. Love is Compassion. Love is Passion. Love is Honesty. Love is to Honor. Love is Authenticity. Love is

Love and Friendship - Signs He Is More Than Just a Friend By Janice S Evans

When do the lines between love and friendship become wavy? Is there a period when love and friendship begin to merge? What are some of the signs that your friend may want something more? What to do when graduating between love and friendship? There have many examples of a relationship beginning as nothing more than a friendship, only to wind up as something much more. This is actually perfectly natural as most marriages should be based on friendship as they are more likely to be successful in the long run. However, when the lines between love and friendship begin to blur, it can be confusing. Keep reading for tips on how to tell when love and friendship start to co-mingle. Comments Often our friends are the first ones to see a sign of romance. One sign that a friend may need to be something more is if your friends start to make comments about how cute the two of you would be as a couple. It is very possible that they may have picked up on little looks or smiles that the two

Real lntimacy by Aidy Thomas

Real lntimacy by Aidy Thomas

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ABC OF GOOD RELATIONSHIP PART 2

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ABC OF GOOD RELATIONSHIP PART ONE

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REASONS MOST PEOPLE FEAR LOVE PART 2

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