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Common Mistakes That Ruin Relationships and Love By Tina L. Jones

What could you be doing wrong? What makes a relationship work and what kills it? How does love progress and what should you be careful of? There are three common mistakes that millions of women are making which could be why they are still single.
The most common mistake that will ruin relationships and love is pressure. This rarely works and too often damages an otherwise healthy connection. If you have to pressure a man to say, "I love you" or propose, it's a dead end anyways. When he loves you he will say so and propose when he is ready for marriage. Don't make this common mistake that ruins many relationships and love.
A man doesn't want a woman who tries too hard that she becomes annoying and pushy. You are not there to be at his beck and call and you have your own needs as well that should be equally met. You will burn yourself out, be taken for granted, and be unhappy. He will actually be turned off that you are constantly around to make him happy when he really wants a break. Avoid these common mistakes that ruin relationships and love.
A woman with no life of her own isn't much of a catch. If you don't have friends, that is a sign there is something wrong with you. Put yourself out there to meet a couple people to have a good time with at least once a week and someone to confide in. Even a sister is a great companion to hit the town and chat with. Women with no life have too much time to call and bug their man. He doesn't want you calling all of the time or the neediness that most women have.
Get your own happy life on the side of your relationship, don't try too hard to please him and forget about you, and don't ever force him into any relationship milestone he isn't ready for. This is your help to not make the common mistakes that ruin relationships and love.
To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.
This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.


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