What's the biggest fear of a single
woman approaching her late 20's?
For most women, it's the prospect of
being single forever. It's the fear of
one day being called an "old maid."
You know what I'm talking about if
you've been asked this question before:
"Why aren't you married yet?"
Ugh, I hate that question! Fortunately,
some of you have shared your snappiest
comebacks with me:
"Marriage isn't a word. It's a
SENTENCE!"
"When my fiance goes on parole!"
"And be like you? Hopefully never!"
You guys slay me. ;)
Sure, some of us don't want to get
married. That's fine. But I'm pretty
sure most of us would like to at least
have a great guy companion for the rest
of our lives. Right?
We don't like going through life feeling
lonely, miserable, and unloved. Right?
That leads us to our question for today:
Why don't so many women ever find a good
man to settle down with?
My answer: It's simply because many of
us don't know how love and dating works.
As a result, we make our own rules as we
go along... and that's pretty dangerous.
Here are a couple of bad "rules" to
follow when looking for love and
happiness:
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BAD RULE #1:
TRYING TO FIND THE SAME KIND OF GUY
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"Debbie" was once in a great
relationship with a great guy from
school for almost two years.
Unfortunately, after graduation, he
started working in a different country -
and their long-distance relationship
didn't work out.
Debbie was crushed, but she was
determined not to be lonely. So she
started dating again. She started
meeting new men.
The problem? She gravitated towards the
men who reminded her of her
ex-boyfriend.
She even got into a relationship with a
guy who looked almost EXACTLY like her
ex! So it was almost like her first
relationship never ended.
Unfortunately, Debbie was living in a
dream. Her new boy was great, but he was
totally different from her ex-boyfriend
- and soon, Debbie's unrealistic
expectations began to suffocate the poor
guy.
Needless to say, Debbie's new
relationship didn't work out.
Should Debbie have looked for the exact
opposite of her ex-boyfriend, instead?
Unfortunately, that's another problem...
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BAD RULE #2:
TRYING TO FIND HIS EXACT OPPOSITE
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"Iris," on the other hand, once dated a
successful entrepreneur. When his work
got in the way, she broke up with him,
but not after several months of "trying
to make the relationship work."
Devastated, Iris flew headlong back into
the dating game. But this time, she
started dating bums, party animals,
players - the exact opposite of her
success-driven ex-boyfriend!
Soon, she was going around with a rebel
- a bum who was living off his mom's
small fortune. They had a soap opera,
"you and me against the world" type of
relationship, and it was fun for a
while.
Unfortunately, their friends and
families began to dislike their
relationship (and Iris's new attitude).
Iris struggled to keep the relationship
together, but the other areas of her
life - her finances, her social life,
her spiritual life, and so on - were
crumbling.
It was only a matter of time before the
breakup happened, and Iris was an even
BIGGER mess than before!
So if finding the same kind of guy as
your ex is a bad idea... and if finding
the exact opposite of your ex is ALSO a
bad idea... what's the right thing to
do?
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ANSWER: CHANGE YOUR WRONG IDEAS ABOUT
LOVE AND DATING
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Here's my answer: The dating game is NOT
about finding the right guy for you.
It's about going out there, meeting many
different guys, and BEING FOUND by the
best possible guy for your life.
After all, what's the use of FINDING the
"right guy for you..." if HE doesn't
think you're the right girl for him?
It takes two people to make a
relationship work!
So what does it take to "be found?"
Simple: To be found, you'll need to be a
fantastic person living a fantastic
life.
No joke!
As I always say: "If you're not happy
single, you won't be happy in a
relationship." Period.
And that's the basis of our teachings
here in the Unforgettable Woman
community. While other dating coaches
urge you to "find a great guy to be
happy," we teach you to "be happy to
attract great guys."
Isn't that a much better, much more fun
way to live? ;)
So how do you become a fantastic person
living a fantastic life?
That's the best news of all...
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HOW TO BECOME A "MAN MAGNET"
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Here's a fact: Guys go CRAZY for smart,
attractive, kindhearted women who have
their lives in order.
That's why women who don't make enemies,
who don't hold grudges, and who focus on
the GOOD things in life... end up with
the best guys and the happiest marriages
of all.
Here at the Unforgettable Woman
community, we slowly and steadily teach
women how to get their lives in order.
For instance, when you signed up to our
Newsletter, you got my free eBook, "How
To Be A Man Magnet." Right?
Then, our Newsletters slowly and
steadily taught you the REAL DEAL about
love and dating. By now, I'm sure you've
gotten rid of a few bad habits and toxic
beliefs, and that's great! ;)
Now, to complete the picture, I
encourage you to read my eBook
collection, the 77 Secrets Of Love.
If you want to be a fantastic woman who
knows every single rule of love and
dating, this is the first, last, and
only guidebook on love you'll ever need!
Over the years, it has helped hundreds
of women get rid of loneliness, fill
their lives with happiness, and attract
great men into their lives.
And now, you can enjoy all of that, too!
The 77 Secrets Of Love has all my most
important lessons on love, such as:
...How to become an even BETTER version
of yourself...
...How to hone in on your most feminine
instincts...
...The most common love and dating
mistakes to avoid...
...How to create a "value system" for
your dating life...
...How to spot the players, liars, and
cheaters from the REAL MEN...
...How to understand the mysteries of
the male mind...
...How to make a man LOOK UP to you...
...How to create "sexual tension"...
...And so much more!
these 3 free reads:
Bonus eBook #1:
13+1 Characteristics That Naturally Attract Men
Bonus eBook #2:
How To Deal With The Emotionally Unavailable Man
Bonus eBook #3:
The Sensual Woman
...And if you're not happier in 4 weeks
or less, let me know - you'll get your
To the happiness you deserve,
~Alexandra Fox
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