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Are you a divorcee here are seven tips for you:what actaully led to divorce by S.Afolabi Yusuf

Hardly had a day pass that we do not have a divorce but why is so?.The answers are simple, first couple do not realize their mistake before it is too late,think of it when couple has initial problem but fail to tackle it,this initial problem will sooner or later generate into a brawl.Second domestic problems which are many could trigger a divorce one thing is clear  two masters can not be in a  house therefore any domestic problem must be solved amicably, for example there may be minor disagreement on arrangement of household furniture it is left  to  couple to disagree in order to agree because there is an adage which says human being at times disagree in other to reach a concessions in this wise disagreement should not be taken too far.Third, not understanding the feeling of your spouse or partner long love life of a couple brings a misgiving,this misgiving do not allow effetive communication,hence diviorce may be comterplated.Most of the misgiving may be centered on household economical matter that require constant and consistant assurance and also clearification.Fourth,one thing couple desire most is to get individual attention couple love to communicate with each other and hence get respond.
Couple therefore become joyfull and fulfilled.Here confident is esterblish in their love affair,but if couple do not get necessary attention they desire mistrust is establish this may lead to aparthy and a situation of aparthied divorce is emminent.Fifth,failure to adhere to decent speech,couple do not know that whatever speech they alter to each other goes along way to cement their relationship,in a situation of annouyance  it is better to keep  silent to allow temper to cool down before saying anything or else it result to a condition of two masters being in a house.lf both
spouse engage in indecent or abusive speech on each other the end result is break up.Sixth,conflict of interest should not be tolerated in a couple life,in fact it will be strange if couple has divers intrest and still survive as one body,although each couple may have his or her own personal interest the overall interest of the relationship should not be jarpodise or else the couple will have hard time sticking together.Finally,forgiveness and tolerant,all human being inhibit revange in fact there is tendency for everyone  of us to try and pay back on anyone that offence us, but do you know that an eye for an eye will leave the whole world blind, forgiveness and tolerant are therefore some key facts that bind couples together,think of  a situation where your partner in love or your wife or your husband refuse to let go a minor offence and such a offence is bottle up such offence will sooner or later explode.


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