Make Him Crave Commitment! By Alexandra Fox

Is your man NOT interested in

commitment?

 

 

Has he told you that marriage was "not

in his plans?"

 

 

Or when you ask him when he plans to

settle down, does he give vague excuses

like, "I'm just waiting for the right

time"?

 

 

If so, then you're not alone! Lots of

women today are in the same situation as

you - stuck in a relationship that's

going nowhere.

 

 

Why are so many men afraid of

commitment? In today's Newsletter, I'll

tell you why - and I'll teach you 3 ways

to make him more open to the idea of

commitment!

 

 

Let's start with the biggest question:

 

 

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WHAT THE HECK IS HE SO AFRAID OF?

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What's a single man's biggest objection

to marriage?

 

 

Without a doubt, he expects that he'll

lose his "freedom" when he commits to

just one woman. He feels that if he gets

married, he'll lose the thrill and

sexual variety that he's currently

enjoying as a single man.

 

 

Now, this fear is normal. After all,

many scientists believe that men are

genetically hard-wired to "spread their

seed." And with TV and media promoting

promiscuity and pleasure, it's becoming

harder and harder to find men who

actually WANT to get married.

 

 

So what does it take to make a man

commit?

 

 

It's simpler than you think: He has to

KNOW that the married life will be so

much better than the single life. He has

to KNOW that his life will actually

IMPROVE when he becomes a married man!

 

 

Now here comes the big question: How do

you "convince" a man that he'll be

better off with you?

 

 

The first thing you need to know is to

NOT be too direct. Take it easy! When it

comes to commitment, you really have to

"break it to him gently."

 

 

And I have 3 steps to help you do just

that...

 

 

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STEP #1 - GET YOURSELF READY FOR

COMMITMENT

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Believe it or not, making a man commit

all starts with you. Are YOU ready for

commitment? Or are you just lonely?

 

 

Trust me - if you're just lonely, and

you just want him to take care of you

and make you happy, it's a bad sign.

He'll sense it right away - he'll think

you're needy, desperate, and

high-maintenance.

 

 

So that's the first step: Get EVERY hint

of loneliness, neediness, and despair

out of your system!

 

 

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STEP #2 - BE UNFORGETTABLE

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Let me say that again: Don't be lonely,

needy, or desperate.

 

 

Instead, be smart. Optimistic. Flirty.

Playful. Hard-to-get.

 

 

If you read our Newsletters and e-books

everyday, then you're already WAY ahead

in the game!

 

 

Remember, he has to see you as "fun." He

has to think you're "cool." You really,

really have to be "something else" for

him.

 

 

If you want a more detailed, complete

list of the qualities that makes a man

want to commit to you, then get the

entire e-book collection here!

 

 

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STEP #3 - IT HAS TO BE A CHOICE YOU BOTH

MAKE

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When it comes to commitment, many women

make the mistake of laying out their

"Terms and Conditions."

 

 

They tell their boyfriends, "This is

what I want. These are my terms. These

are my conditions for marriage. What are

yours?"

 

 

Ladies, if you lay out "terms of

conditions" for your relationship, then

that's NOT love.

 

 

That's BUSINESS.

 

 

If you REALLY want your relationship to

work out, then commitment has to be a

choice both of you make. YOU HAVE TO BE

IN THIS TOGETHER.

 

 

Remember, the happiest, most successful

relationships out there aren't

give-and-take. They're GIVE-AND-GIVE.

(Because when both of you keep giving,

there won't be any need to take away

anything from each other.)

 

 

So as early as now, learn to do things

together. Even the little things are

important, such as deciding where to go

or what to do.

 

 

Later on, when the bigger things in life

come your way, you'll be tackling those

together, too. ;)

 

 

So let's do a quick recap of the 3 steps

to make him more open to commitment:

 

 

#1 - Are YOU ready for commitment? Are

you sure you're not just lonely?

 

 

#2 - Are you unforgettable? Remember: If

you want him to commit to you, you have

to be PHENOMENAL... or you'll be

forgotten!

 

 

#3 - Learn to make decisions together.

It takes teamwork to make your

relationship last forever!

 

 

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WHAT COMES NEXT?

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The 3 tips I gave you in this Newsletter

will slowly and surely make him more

open to the idea of committing to you.

But of course, they're not ALL you need.

You'll also need to be prepared for what

comes AFTER you master these 3 tips.

 

 

For instance, there's the "commitment

talk." This is the time when you finally

sit with him and talk about getting

married and raising a family. What

should you say? What should you NOT say?

And what does he expect?

 

 

Or let's just say he suddenly had a

change of heart. Suddenly he doesn't

feel so sure about settling down. What

should you say and do to get him back on

board?

 

 

I answer these and many more others in

my special e-book collection about

commitment, the "77 Secrets To Get A

Commitment." What's more, you'll also

learn:

 

 

The "red flags" that tell you he's a

hopeless case when it comes to

commitment...

 

 

The #1 reason why most relationships

don't work out - and how to avoid making

the mistake before it's too late...

 

 

The right words to say, word-for-word,

when it comes to the all-important

"commitment talk..."

 

 

And more!

 

 

Click below to take control of your road

to commitment:

 

 

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To the happiness you deserve,

 

~Alexandra Fox