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#Did He Leave You Hanging? Here's Why. By Alexandra Fox

Did he get your number, but never called

you up? Or is he calling you less and

less frequently? The bad news: Either

he's not interested, or you turned him

off by accident. The good news? You can

make him start calling you and asking

you out again. It's all in the e-book

collection below 

 

- - - > Make him call you MORE! < - - - 

Has this ever happened to you before?

  

You met a great man at a party or social

gathering. You have a great time

together, he asks for your number, and

he promises to call you up soon.


But as the days pass, you wonder why he

isn't calling yet. You find him on

Facebook, but he never responded to your

Friend Request.



What happened? Did he "play" you during

that first meeting? Did you just become

a victim?



Or how about THIS scenario...



You're dating a great new guy, and he

DOES call you up. In fact, he calls you

up A LOT. (Ever chatted with a man all

the way to breakfast? How fun was THAT?

;)

But suddenly, just when things were

getting "juicy" between you, he suddenly

stops calling. He no longer appears

online, and all your calls and texts go

unanswered.



What happened? Was he just playing with

you? Was it something you said?


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WHY A MAN ASKS FOR YOUR NUMBER,

BUT NEVER CALLS YOU UP

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In today's Newsletter, we'll talk about

that all-important pillar of strong

relationships: Communication. 

I've said it before, and I won't stop

saying it - if you want a happy, strong,

loving relationship with your man, you

have to work on your communication

skills!  

And today's communication gadget of

choice - mobile phones - can be a

powerful tool in making a man love you

and care for you more. I'll explain more

later in this Newsletter. 

 

For now, let's talk about why men

suddenly stop calling - or don't call at

all.

 Why does a man ask for your number, but

never call you up?

This can happen a lot in the casual

dating stage. But here's the thing: It

SHOULDN'T bother you!

When you're still "shopping around" in

the dating game, you'll undoubtedly meet

a lot of guys. And naturally, many of

them won't be a good match for you...

 For instance, some guys may be players.

Others may be too busy for a

relationship. And still others may

simply not be interested in you.

 But that's okay. Like I said, don't let

it bother you! There's no point in

pursuing a guy who isn't interested in

you. 

Besides, do you really want a

relationship with a man who can't keep a

simple promise... like giving you a

call? 

Of course not! 

But what about the second scenario? 

What if you used to spend a LOT of time

calling, texting, e-mailing, and

chatting with each other... then he

suddenly stopped staying in touch with

you?

There are many reasons why a man would

suddenly stop calling you up. And some

of these reasons, unfortunately, involve

certain mistakes that WE make. 

(Want to learn how to make him start

calling you again - and KEEP calling you

until you settle down together? 

 

If he suddenly stopped calling you up,

kindly ask yourself the following

questions:


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Question #1 - "Am I being a downer?"

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When you chat with him on the phone (or

over the Internet), do you usually talk

about your problems? Or do you use your

sacred communication time to rant and

vent your frustrations in life? 

Here's the thing: You and your

girlfriends may enjoy sharing their

problems and frustrations with each

other... but men certainly don't.

 (That's why it's called "GIRL talk!")

 

So were you being a "downer" to him?

 

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Question #2 - "Am I self-centered?"

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Think of the last phone conversation you

had with him. What did you talk about?

How much of your conversation focused on

you, and how much of it focused on HIM?

 

 

You probably know this already, but it

bears repeating: When you TALK much more

than you LISTEN, it's hard for anyone to

like you.

Were you being self-centered?

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Question #3 - "Did I call him too

often?"

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 Did you initiate most of your phone

conversations with him? Did you call him

up too often?

Was there ever a time when you called

him up just to ask: "Why haven't you

called me yet?"

 If you read one of our Newsletters last

week, then you've probably learned that

it's HIS job to stay in touch with us. 

And when you do most of the calling,

he'll feel like it's YOU who's chasing

him.

 He'll feel like HE'S the woman in the

relationship. 

And that alone can make him feel BAD

whenever he's with you... which, in

turn, will make him call you even LESS.

 Let me say that again: Don't reverse

your roles, or you'll risk losing him

forever!

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HOW TO MAKE HIM CALL YOU MORE

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 I bet you didn't know there was a

SCIENCE to your phone conversations with

men!

 And it's true - there's a certain

"psychology" to communicating with a man

over the phone or the Internet. As

you've already seen, there are many ways

to "turn him off" - without you knowing

it!

 Of course, there's some good news to the

whole matter. If it's possible to turn

him OFF with your phone calls, it's also

possible to TURN HIM ON.

 And no, I'm not talking about phone

sex... which, by the way, is another BIG

mistake!

 So how DO you turn a man on with a phone

call?

 Let me teach you the entire psychology

of communication in my "Get Him To Call

You More" e-book collection. In 14

Chapters, I give you some of the most

powerful ways to actually get a man

HOOKED on calling you up.

 What's more, I also included a special

BONUS e-book, entitled "How To Win The

Calling Game," to the collection!

 What do you think? Are you TIRED of

always losing the calling game?

 I suggest you get a copy of "Get Him To

Call You More" today, and make your

mobile phone give you a strong,

wonderful, loving man to date, love, and

cherish.

 Because if you don't, then you won't get

anything from your phone... except phone

bills! ;)

 

 



 

 


 

~Alexandra Fox

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