Learn the Science of Love! By Alexandra Fox

Do you have a clear idea of

what your ideal man is? Do you know

exactly what to say and do in order to

make him fall in love with you too? To

know more about the science of making a

man commit to you, I invite you to learn

the 77 Secrets of Seduction, which you

can get by clicking the link below:

 

 

 

 

If you're still single and unhappy, then

this article's for you. Today, we'll be

talking about the science of attraction

-- or, more specifically, how to attract

the kinds of men that are best suited

for you, instead of the men that are

players, cheaters, or simply

emotionally-unavailable.

 

 

Now, some women may laugh at the idea

that "love" is a science. They'll tell

you things like, "Haha, you'll have to

be a real loser if you have to study

about love!"

 

 

Well, I know what they mean. There was

once a time when I believed love was

something that would just come at the

right place at the right time. I thought

it was something every woman inherently

deserved, and would ultimately get if

they waited long enough.

 

 

But that was quite a long time ago, back

when I was still young and foolish. (Now

I'm just young.)

 

 

Sure, I believe in luck in love.

Sometimes great men really DO fall on

your lap.

 

 

But I also realized that the more you

know about the science of attraction,

the luckier you get!

 

 

The more you know about how love really

works, and how men think and feel about

relationships, and what the right kinds

of "love" communication are, the more

great men you meet in life.

 

 

So let's get to know the science of

attraction a little bit more.

 

 

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Love "Before" Sight

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Everyone's heard of "love at first

sight." But have you ever heard of "love

BEFORE sight?"

 

 

It's a fairly new concept in the dating

game. It's a way of visualizing your

ideal partner, in as much vivid detail

as you want, in order to actually

attract such men into your life.

 

 

If you've seen or read "The Secret," or

otherwise know about the "Law of

Attraction," then you're probably

familiar with the concept!

 

 

By the way, it isn't magic. It's a fact

that your life is shaped around what you

constantly do and think about.

 

 

Here's a basic example. When you're

worried about your weight, you tend to

think, "I'm fat" whenever you look at

the mirror. Now what would happen if you

thought of the words "I'm fat" every

single morning?

 

 

The first thing that happens is that

you'll unconsciously LABEL yourself as

fat -- even if you're not!

 

 

So when you take a shower -- "I'm fat."

When you sit down for lunch -- "This

will make me even more fat." When your

relatives say you look great -- "I'm

really fat, but they're just being

nice."

 

 

And what happens when a cute guy happens

to look your way and give you a friendly

smile?

 

 

"It's because I'm fat."

 

 

So even if the guy did approach you and

try to get to know you better, your

negative thoughts and emotions will keep

the potential relationship from ever

taking off. And that's really sad!

 

 

The same thing happens when you label

yourself "ugly," "dumb," "unattractive,"

or "single."

 

 

Friends, I'd like you to change the way

you label yourself. Stop thinking that

you're "single and unhappy."

 

 

I invite you, starting today, to think:

"I'm ALIVE and LOVIN' IT!"

 

 

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They're Not Kidding When They Say "It's

All In The Mind!"

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Your goal is to feel so ALIVE that

you're irrepressibly open to everything

that comes your way in life and love.

Feel ALIVE enough to enjoy the good

things, challenge the bad things, and

CHANGE the things you can.

 

 

And it all starts within yourself!

 

 

Think of what would happen if every

morning, when you look in the mirror,

you tell yourself: "I'm beautiful. I'm

alive. And I'm loving it!"

 

 

These positive thoughts will carry over

to the other aspects of your life. And,

as you already know, the real men out

there always, ALWAYS go for positive

women.

 

 

If it's hard for you to say positive

things like "I'm sexy," or "I'm

irresistible," that's okay. Start small

-- "I'm smart," "I'm satisfied," "I love

my hair" -- and work your way up from

there!

 

 

The important thing is to JUST GET

STARTED. The longer your negative

emotions fester in your psyche, the more

damage they're going to do, and the

longer it'll take to get rid of them!

 

 

Do you have a mirror near you? Go right

ahead -- look at yourself for a few

moments, and say something nice about

yourself. Don't read through the next

section of this article until you've

done so!

 

 

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Okay, are you done? How did it feel?

 

 

However you felt, congratulations --

keep doing it until you get used to it!

 

 

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Feel Good About Yourself First -- Then

Feel Good About Others

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"Selfless love" is an oxymoron.

 

 

It's like "clean politics" or "romantic

comedy" or "Microsoft Works." (There, I

said it!)

 

 

You can't love someone else if you don't

love yourself first. And that's a fact!

 

 

It's silly to think you can love other

people while hating yourself at the same

time.

 

 

That's why it's VERY important to feel

good about yourself first. Only then

will you feel good about the

relationships that come into your life.

 

 

Which brings us back to the concept of

"love BEFORE sight."

 

 

I received a silly text joke a few days

back. It went like this:

 

 

"At age 5 -- I don't want a man."

 

 

"At age 15 -- I think I want a man."

 

 

"At age 25 -- I want a great,

financially-stable, emotionally-mature

man."

 

 

"At age 35 -- I want a good man."

 

 

"At age 45 -- I want ANY man."

 

 

"At age 55 -- OH MAN!"

 

 

It really made me laugh, but what struck

me the most was the "Age 45" part.

Because most single women, no matter how

young or old they are, think that way:

 

 

"I want ANY man."

 

 

When I get that answer, I usually ask

back, "Seriously? You don't have any

special requirements?"

 

 

"No, Alex," they say with a smile. "Any

man will do."

 

 

And you know what happens? That's

EXACTLY what they get. Any man.

 

 

Which is pretty dangerous if you ask me.

Life can send you a family man or a

stupid, stupid man. Both are men. So be

specific!

 

 

Which brings us to our last exercise for

the day.

 

 

I'd like you to take a few moments and

visualize your "ideal man."

 

 

Imagine he's sitting beside you, looking

at you right now. What's he like? How

does he act?

 

 

Imagine the two of you went on a

romantic vacation. How does he treat

you? What would the little surprises be?

How does he talk to you? How does he

touch you?

 

 

Imagine you had a little argument. What

would his little faults be? How easily

should it be for you to forgive him --

and keep the relationship going? And how

easily would he be willing to compromise

to make sure the relationship keeps

growing and maturing?

 

 

I'd like you to visualize your "ideal

man" as often as you can. That way he

becomes REAL in your mind -- and it

becomes much easier to spot such men in

real life!

 

 

THAT'S how you attract the best men in

society.

 

 

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But It Doesn't Stop There!

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Like I said before, it isn't magic.

Visualizing your ideal man won't make

him appear right in front of you when

you least expect it!

 

 

Visualizing him is only one half of the

equation.

 

 

The second half is to KEEP LEARNING

about the science of love. You'll need

to keep looking at yourself in a better

light, and you'll need to learn the

secrets of "love communication" -- so

that when your ideal man DOES show up,

you'll know exactly how to make him fall

MADLY in love with you.

 

 

Of course, I'm here to make it easier!

 

 

My 77 Secrets of Seduction e-book series

is meant to help you see yourself and

your ideal man according to the science

of love. It'll teach you the right ways

of communicating with a man, finding

what makes him "tick," and ultimately

make him fall so deeply in love with you

that he can't help but want you for the

rest of his life!

 

 

You already have an idea of what he's

going to be like. Now you can learn how

to act, think, and feel when he DOES

walk into your life! Click below to

start learning the 77 Secrets of

Seduction:

 

 

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And when you finally DO find him, be

sure to send me an e-mail. By the way,

do you know what gets ME going every

morning? Reading through the success

stories that my readers send me every

day. I'm looking forward to reading YOUR

story soon!

 

 

To the happiness you deserve,

~Alexandra Fox