Skip to main content

Signs of a Failing Relationship" By Alexandra Fox


"Signs of a Failing Relationship"


>>NOTE: How do you know your relationship is headed to a breakup? But more importantly -- how do you turn things around and make the relationship last? The answers are all in my book, 77 Secrets of Love, which you can take a look at below: 

Hi Girls! 
Tell me if you've experienced this before: 
Let's say you met a great new guy, and you took a liking to each other immediately. 
Within a few dates, you're already in constant communication with each other. 
You text every morning. 
You call every few days. 
You try to see each other at least once a week. 
And then, one very special date, when you feel like it's time to take the relationship to the next level, you ask him if he's ready to go steady. And after a few embarrassed moments, he says YES!
What follows is a great first few days of the relationship. You're ready to scream the fact to the entire world -- you're officially a couple, and you're well on your way to happily ever after! 
...Or so you thought. 
Soon after the relationship started, you noticed that he's not staying in touch as often.
He's not texting unless you text first. 
He doesn't call as often. 
He doesn't seem as interested in intimacy before. 
He isn't asking you out for as many dates as before -- and when you ask him about it, he tells you he's been busy, or that he's tired, or other such reasons. 
And it seems the harder you try to find out why your relationship is turning sour, the farther and more unreachable he seems to become. 
The uncertainty builds up and you ultimately break into an argument -- which only leaves things worse than before. 
The cycle goes on and on and on, until ultimately the once-great relationship with a once-great man falls apart. 
And you're left there heartbroken, alone, and endlessly wondering what went wrong. 
If something like this has happened to you before, then pay close attention to this e-mail! 
Why Relationships That Start Out Great Turn Sour Soon After
There are many reasons why relationships fail. 
And it could be caused by you, by him, or by external factors. 
Now if you've been on my mailing list for a while, then you probably already know that there are very few issues about him or external factors that you can actually control. 
But you have complete power over YOUR OWN issues. 
And if you think you don't have any issues, then try to see if any of the following scenarios apply to you. 
#1 - Do you tend to judge a man too easily?
We may think men are easy to figure out. 
For instance, since men are visual creatures, it's easy to think that good looks and great body language is the most powerful way to a man's heart. 
So you try to look as good as you can, expecting a man to love you and commit to you. 
Unfortunately, men aren't that simple. 
Men are very complicated creatures! 
And if you tend to simplify your judgments about men, you also tend to keep your connection with men at a shallow, skin-deep level. 
And, yes, such shallow relationships never last. 
#2 - Do you expect your relationships to make you happy? 
I'll admit -- we all want our relationships to make us happy. 
And we often go great lengths to assure he does his part to make the relationship work. 
But unfortunately, this can actually SCARE men off! 
Here's the thing -- if you want the relationship to make you happy, then it's very likely he wants the relationship to make him happy too. 
It goes both ways. 
But if you don't realize that he has other ideas regarding a "happy relationship" too, then you might end up telling him about YOUR hopes, YOUR dreams, and YOUR ideas too much. 
And that can be suffocating to a man -- to the point that he'll start looking for ways out of the relationship. 
Sad but true!
But it gets worse... 
Even if he DOES stick around and tries to satisfy your requirements for a happy relationship, you'll still be on the losing side. 
Aside from the fact that you may never be satisfied, you'll also be left with a man who's weak, subservient, and ultimately unable to be that "strong male presence" in the relationship that every woman looks for in the first place. 
Do you expect your relationships to make you happy? 
#3 - Do you try to convince him to love you? 
Now THIS is a big mistake that WAY too many women make. 
I say again -- you CANNOT convince a man to love you. 
You CAN'T. No matter what you do. 
No amount of begging, pleading, flowers, candy, dinners, or even free sex will make him love you. 
Here's a free tip: For a man to love you, he has to feel that strong, gut-feel, emotional attraction to you in the first place. 
Without it, it's hopeless. 
Think about it -- if a man you weren't particularly attracted to began trying to win your affections with gifts, dinners, and other favors? Would it make you more attracted to him? 
No, right? 
(Besides, if you do, then prepare for a relationship filled with heartache and pain.) 
#4 - Do you NOT know what he wants? 
Many of us go into a relationship with a clear view of what we want. 
We want to be happy. 
We want to NOT worry about money. 
We want to have fun. 
You may have your own expectations for your relationships as well. And that's a good thing -- a long-term plan will up the chances of a successful, fulfilling, long-term relationship with a man. 
But did you know what can drastically pull down those chances? 
Exactly -- not knowing what HE wants!
Men are people too, and they have their own expectations for their relationships. 
Now it may be easy to get a picture of what he wants in the relationship. 
You can talk about it. You can ask him what he expects. You can compare notes and establish an "emotional gray area" that you can work on. That's all fine. 
But as you probably already know, there are many things that men can't tell you -- even if they tried. 
How can you tell what he really wants in a relationship? 
And what can you do to make those expectations WORK towards a happier, more fulfilling, long-term relationship with him? 
Friends, I'd love to tell you. In fact, I already have in my ebook, 77 Secrets of Love. In 77 Secrets, I'll be giving you deep, eye-opening insights into the male psychology that will help you get a better idea of how a man thinks. 
But even better... 
I'll be giving you some cutting-edge techniques in dating and relationships that will drastically increase your chances of attracting the best possible men into your life -- and enter great, lasting, ever-growing relationship with him. 
(And I'm pretty sure the free e-books that come with it will help you along, too!) 

If you're interested in checking out the 77 Secrets of Love, click on the link below. I guarantee it's going to be the single best investment you'll ever make for your love and happiness. 

"Signs of a Failing Relationship"


>>NOTE: How do you know your relationship is headed to a breakup? But more importantly -- how do you turn things around and make the relationship last? The answers are all in my book, 77 Secrets of Love, which you can take a look at below: 
Hi Girls! 
Tell me if you've experienced this before: 
Let's say you met a great new guy, and you took a liking to each other immediately. 
Within a few dates, you're already in constant communication with each other. 
You text every morning. 
You call every few days. 
You try to see each other at least once a week. 
And then, one very special date, when you feel like it's time to take the relationship to the next level, you ask him if he's ready to go steady. And after a few embarrassed moments, he says YES!
What follows is a great first few days of the relationship. You're ready to scream the fact to the entire world -- you're officially a couple, and you're well on your way to happily ever after! 
...Or so you thought. 
Soon after the relationship started, you noticed that he's not staying in touch as often.
He's not texting unless you text first. 
He doesn't call as often. 
He doesn't seem as interested in intimacy before. 
He isn't asking you out for as many dates as before -- and when you ask him about it, he tells you he's been busy, or that he's tired, or other such reasons. 
And it seems the harder you try to find out why your relationship is turning sour, the farther and more unreachable he seems to become. 
The uncertainty builds up and you ultimately break into an argument -- which only leaves things worse than before. 
The cycle goes on and on and on, until ultimately the once-great relationship with a once-great man falls apart. 
And you're left there heartbroken, alone, and endlessly wondering what went wrong. 
If something like this has happened to you before, then pay close attention to this e-mail! 
Why Relationships That Start Out Great Turn Sour Soon After
There are many reasons why relationships fail. 
And it could be caused by you, by him, or by external factors. 
Now if you've been on my mailing list for a while, then you probably already know that there are very few issues about him or external factors that you can actually control. 
But you have complete power over YOUR OWN issues. 
And if you think you don't have any issues, then try to see if any of the following scenarios apply to you. 
#1 - Do you tend to judge a man too easily?
We may think men are easy to figure out. 
For instance, since men are visual creatures, it's easy to think that good looks and great body language is the most powerful way to a man's heart. 
So you try to look as good as you can, expecting a man to love you and commit to you. 
Unfortunately, men aren't that simple. 
Men are very complicated creatures! 
And if you tend to simplify your judgments about men, you also tend to keep your connection with men at a shallow, skin-deep level. 
And, yes, such shallow relationships never last. 
#2 - Do you expect your relationships to make you happy? 
I'll admit -- we all want our relationships to make us happy. 
And we often go great lengths to assure he does his part to make the relationship work. 
But unfortunately, this can actually SCARE men off! 
Here's the thing -- if you want the relationship to make you happy, then it's very likely he wants the relationship to make him happy too. 
It goes both ways. 
But if you don't realize that he has other ideas regarding a "happy relationship" too, then you might end up telling him about YOUR hopes, YOUR dreams, and YOUR ideas too much. 
And that can be suffocating to a man -- to the point that he'll start looking for ways out of the relationship. 
Sad but true!
But it gets worse... 
Even if he DOES stick around and tries to satisfy your requirements for a happy relationship, you'll still be on the losing side. 
Aside from the fact that you may never be satisfied, you'll also be left with a man who's weak, subservient, and ultimately unable to be that "strong male presence" in the relationship that every woman looks for in the first place. 
Do you expect your relationships to make you happy? 
#3 - Do you try to convince him to love you? 
Now THIS is a big mistake that WAY too many women make. 
I say again -- you CANNOT convince a man to love you. 
You CAN'T. No matter what you do. 
No amount of begging, pleading, flowers, candy, dinners, or even free sex will make him love you. 
Here's a free tip: For a man to love you, he has to feel that strong, gut-feel, emotional attraction to you in the first place. 
Without it, it's hopeless. 
Think about it -- if a man you weren't particularly attracted to began trying to win your affections with gifts, dinners, and other favors? Would it make you more attracted to him? 
No, right? 
(Besides, if you do, then prepare for a relationship filled with heartache and pain.) 
#4 - Do you NOT know what he wants? 
Many of us go into a relationship with a clear view of what we want. 
We want to be happy. 
We want to NOT worry about money. 
We want to have fun. 
You may have your own expectations for your relationships as well. And that's a good thing -- a long-term plan will up the chances of a successful, fulfilling, long-term relationship with a man. 
But did you know what can drastically pull down those chances? 
Exactly -- not knowing what HE wants!
Men are people too, and they have their own expectations for their relationships. 
Now it may be easy to get a picture of what he wants in the relationship. 
You can talk about it. You can ask him what he expects. You can compare notes and establish an "emotional gray area" that you can work on. That's all fine. 
But as you probably already know, there are many things that men can't tell you -- even if they tried. 
How can you tell what he really wants in a relationship? 
And what can you do to make those expectations WORK towards a happier, more fulfilling, long-term relationship with him? 
Friends, I'd love to tell you. In fact, I already have in my ebook, 77 Secrets of Love. In 77 Secrets, I'll be giving you deep, eye-opening insights into the male psychology that will help you get a better idea of how a man thinks. 
But even better... 
I'll be giving you some cutting-edge techniques in dating and relationships that will drastically increase your chances of attracting the best possible men into your life -- and enter great, lasting, ever-growing relationship with him. 
(And I'm pretty sure the free e-books that come with it will help you along, too!) 

If you're interested in checking out the 77 Secrets of Love, click on the link below. I guarantee it's going to be the single best investment you'll ever make for your love and happiness. 
---> To Ever Growing Relationship< --- http://www.cartville.com/app/?Clk=5498965
Until then, pay attention to the signs -- and make sure your relationship isn't going the wrong way! 
~Alexandra Fox

 

©2012 Unforgettable Woman, All Rights Reserved. By entering, you agree to terms and conditions found here. The contents of this website, the E-Courses, the newsletters, consultations, and postings are for entertainment purposes only. You are responsible for your own personal decisions and none of the information provided by Unforgettable Woman should be considered legal or professional advice. By entering your email address you are also requesting and agreeing to subscribe to our free Unforgettable Woman email newsletters. Click here to read our Privacy Policy You must be 18 or older to enter. To sign up for our newsletters, please click Unforgettable Woman

Until then, pay attention to the signs -- and make sure your relationship isn't going the wrong way! 
~Alexandra Fox

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Timeless Love Advice From 5 of My Happiest Readers By Alexandra Fox

Is there a toxic man in your life?     Or worse... is there more than one?     It's the holiday season - a time of hope and happiness! And I believe your LIFE should be filled with hope and happiness, as well.     And toxic men should have no place in your life, period. (Make it your New Year's Resolution!)     Today, I won't be giving you the usual dating advice like I usually do.     Instead, I'll let five of my readers give their advice to you when it comes to dating toxic men...     "Hannah's" Advice: Be Smarter Than Players     My advice would be to stay away from players - they're bad news. I learned that the hard way after I first moved to the city and started dating seriously for the first time.   Guys can:   - Be dishonest - Cheat behind your back - Say things they don't really mean - Play with your feelings - ......

Relationship Help: Why Do I Get So Upset with My Partner? by: Dr. Rich Nicastro

Q: I need some relationship help. While I love my husband with all my heart, sometimes it's just so frustrating being married to him. When I feel that he's ignoring me, I get so upset, and he's usually surprised by the intensity of my reaction. Why do I get so upset with him? ~Lynn, Carlsbad CA  A: Thanks for the question, Lynn. Here are some thoughts that might help shed light on your experience:  It is extremely distressing to feel as if your words and actions have no impact (or no longer matter) to your spouse/partner�to think that someone whom you love deeply is no longer engaged fully in the relationship or interested in what's important to you can be extremely painful.  When you feel like your spouse/partner is not being responsive to you (and to your needs), two outcomes become likely:  1. Initially, you may "up the ante" in order to have some kind of impact on your spouse/partner-- this might involve yelling, becoming more provocative, elevating your ...

Can marriage survive without love

Law Offices of Todd K. Mohink, PA CALL US NOW: 410-204-4697 Available To Help You SCHEDULE CONSULTATION ≡MENU CAN A MARRIAGE SURVIVE WITHOUT LOVE? logo Back in the 1960s, The Beatles sang “All you need is love.” But do you even need love nowadays for a successful marriage? Ideally, yes. But many couples are staying together for other reasons, such as kids. Their relationship evolves from a romantic one to a parenting one. In the past, those in rocky marriages with kids would have several options: get divorced, stay together in a miserable marriage, go into therapy and work harder on the marriage, or have an affair. Having a romantic bond with your partner for decades can be challenging to say the least. It can be next to impossible when kids are involved. That’s why after the love is gone, many couples file for divorce. Should You Work on Your Marriage? If you’re living in a loveless marriage, what do you do now? Should you try to work things out? It ultimately depends on your goals....

ABC OF GOOD RELATIONSHIP PART ONE

BY AIDY THOMAS CULLED FROM PMNEWS 

THREE WAYS TO PLEASE YOUR LOVER IN LOVE RELATIONSHIP

                                                              Are you  in love with someone and you intend to offer  some gift to him or her? .lf yes,the following  tips   is  for you ,follow it strictly to the latest your heartthrob  or lover will be delighted. Most people do not know that there are ways to please someone they love without offending the norm, that is ,pleasing your lover without going against the societal law .You know every society has it laws and regulations, and as such you should be aware of the laws  governing  relationship  and love affairs in your locality, for example a girl or a boy though mature but below the stipulated age of an adult can not be given an alcohol as birth day  gift .However the bellow  tips, if apply diligently will be ...

4 Steps to True Love By Alexandra Fox

Are you in a relationship with a man right now... or do you secretly wish you were?     No matter what your situation is right now, in the Unforgettable Woman community, our goal is to help you find true love and happiness with the man of your dreams.     On the journey to find true love and happiness, there are a few challenges. Most people give up and never overcome these challenges. Today I would like to share with you how to deal with the 2 biggest challenges women face in a relationship....     Challenge #1: Things Will Get Boring.     The first few months of a new relationship are almost always sizzling hot. But after things settle down, the thrill fades away, and the relationship becomes a little... boring.     If you've been in a failed relationship...
Rapidly Grow Your Email List, Sell Products And Double Your Social Media Following With This One Simple Plugin By Yaro Starak 112 Comments Facebook Twitter Google+ LinkedIn 43 Updated!  – Press play on the video below to see exactly how the  Smart Slider  can rapidly grow your  email list , all your  social media channels , and  sell your products , or promote any page… Now With Support For The Following Channels: Facebook (Profiles and Pages) Twitter Instagram Pinterest LinkedIn Google+ YouTube iTunes Podcast Email List (any autoresponder)  –New! Products/Any Link  –New! Introducing A Powerful Yet Simple Plugin For Your Blog — The Smart Slider You may have noticed this little slider pop out from the left side as you scroll down posts here at Entrepreneurs-Journey… The slider began as a standalone widget that was coded into my blog design. It was designed to use my blog to help grow my...

Four Things You Should Know About Divorce By Jemimah Macaday

We've fallen out of love" and "We just aren't meant for each other." These and other popular clichés have unfortunately been heard between husbands and wives today. If you are a married husband or wife, whether newlyweds or been wedded for years, do you feel the same as the aforementioned statements? Well, you are not alone. BUT! At this moment, try to stop--and think before making a speedy decision to end your marriage. Here are a few but crucial things you must know about divorce. 1. The Financial Problem Marital separation worldwide proved to have injuriously affected women financially. A seven-year European study, headed by Mieke Jansen, exposed that after split-up, the income of women dropped off by 17 percent, while men's income increased by 11 percent. According to Jansen, this is more difficult to most women because they have to find a job to support them and their children's material needs, plus the fact that they have to deal with the e...

Should You Date Your Polar Opposite in 2018? By Alexandra Fox

Would you rather date a man who matched your personality... or who is the  opposite of you?     It's an age-old debate in dating: Whether "same feather" couples are more likely to succeed than "opposites attract" couples, and vice-versa.     As far as successful relationships go, "same feather" couples have a slight advantage. Since they think alike, they're better able to solve problems as a team.     But at the same time, here's a warning...     Don't make the mistake of thinking, "Okay, from now on, I'll only date guys who match my personality."     Why? Because many of us end up JUDGING men by thinking: "Hmm, he hates Italian food, but it's my favorite... so I guess I should stop seein...