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The Other Woman – This Is What She Has That You Don't By Alexandra Fox

ls there a man in your life that you
like in a special way... but he seems
currently more attracted to another
woman?


Or are you in a relationship right
now... but you have that nagging feeling
that your man secretly loves another
woman more than you?


If so, then this Newsletter's for you!
Today, we'll answer that age-old
question: "How do you WIN over the other
woman?"


We'll get to the answer in a moment. But
first, I'd like to tackle an even MORE
important question, in my opinion...


"Is he worth it?"


About Winning In Life And Love


Here's the thing: Sometimes, winning in
love means losing a guy.


Why? Because sometimes, a guy simply
isn't worth fighting for!


For instance, if you're in a
relationship with him... but a guy is
obviously seeing another woman behind
your back... then it's probably best to
just leave him.


Why fight for a guy who won't even fight
for you, right?


So that's my first piece of advice,
ladies: BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF.


Just keep it real. Does he treat you
well? Does he DESERVE your love? Or is
trying to "win" him back really a losing
battle for you?


Here's my second piece of advice when it
comes to men who love other women:


Knowing And Doing Are Two Different Things


It's one thing to KNOW you have to leave
a guy... but it's a totally different
thing to REALLY leave a guy.


Agree or disagree? ;)


You may have been in that situation
before (or know of someone who has).
You're in a relationship with a guy
who's so OBVIOUSLY bad for you... but
you keep going back to him.


It doesn't matter how abusive he
becomes, or how many times you break up
with him... you end up crawling back to
him, because you can't stand being
alone.


You've fallen into the trap of thinking:
"A bad boyfriend is better than no
boyfriend at all."


Duh!


Here's my message, ladies: "Winning" in
love isn't about having a boyfriend.


"Winning" in love is all about having
good relationships.


And it starts with the most important
relationship of all:


Love Yourself First


You got it - the most important
relationship is the one you have with
yourself!


After all, if you don't love yourself
first, then no one else will. Right?


You can't give what you don't have,
after all!


The reason why so many of us stay single
and miserable well into our 30's or 40's
is because we TRY SO HARD not to be
single.


We chase men, we hook up with
manipulative bad boys, we "fight" over
guys with other women, and so on. As a
result, we lead messy love lives that no
man wants to be a part of.


It's like pain. Why do we dislike pain
so much?


Simple - because we actively try to
avoid pain. Day in and day out, we're
focused on avoiding pain. We work SO
HARD to take it easy.


Naturally, when pain comes, it's
especially uncomfortable. Right?


But what happens when you ACCEPT pain as
part of life?


What happens when you EMBRACE pain, and
actively try to get used to it?


Then you start getting used to it. You
find better ways to cope with pain. And,
over time, you realize that pain is
actually making you better, stronger,
more resilient, and even HAPPIER.


The same thing happens when you try to
love yourself.


When you spend your days actively trying
to get men to love you, then obviously
every single rejection, defeat, or
failure will hurt TERRIBLY.


But when you first love yourself - when
you accept yourself completely, warts
and all - then everything suddenly
becomes easier.


Life becomes easier. Work becomes
easier. Maintaining friendships and
family ties becomes easier.


And - you bet - attracting great men
into your life becomes easier, too!


Now, if there's an "other woman" in your
life - if the man you love seems to like
her more - then I'm willing to bet that
"other woman" loves herself more than
you love yourself. And that's why she's
winning.


Want to win?


Then start loving yourself!


What Men Like Most In Women


Here's my final lesson: The best men out
there are attracted to the happiest
women in the dating game.


So if you tend to be too quiet, or too
depressed, or too desperate... you won't
be attracting men anytime soon. (And
when you do, they're usually the scum of
the dating game - players, cheaters,
liars, and so on.)


If you keep finding yourself in
miserable situations in love, then I
suggest you build your relationship with
yourself first. And I'd like you to take
the first step by reading my eBook,


This eBook is an in-depth look at the
things men like in women - especially
the hidden, little-known secrets. With
this eBook, you can finally develop the
following traits and skills that men
find IRRESISTIBLE:


(1) The kind of beauty and brains that
men REALLY fall in love with

(2) How to make your physical flaws
incredibly sexy

(3) How to trigger physical,
intellectual, and emotional attraction
in a man

(4) How to make a man think of the
future with you in it

(5) How to be a man's "number one" for
the rest of his life

(6) And so much more!


Learn how to love yourself, and become a
good man's "number one" woman for the
rest of his life! Put yourself first
right now. Visit the website below to
get a 30-day trial of my eBook, Why He
Likes Her More:





To the happiness you deserve,
~Alexandra Fox

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