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Having Sex With Him – How Early Is “Too Early? Alexandra Fox

Can you make a guy love you, commit to
you, and settle down with you... even
after you accidentally have sex with him
too early? The answer is "yes..." but
there's the HARD way, and there's the
EASY way. Let me show you the EASY way -
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When it comes to having sex with a guy
you're dating, how early is "too early?"


For some people, three dates is the
minimum.


For others, it's three MONTHS.


For still others, it's best to save sex
until the wedding night.


What's YOUR opinion?


In my years as a dating coach, this is
the trend I've noticed: Couples who
abstain from having sex until after 3-6
months of going steady tend to be
happier and stronger, and have marriages
that last much longer.


But having said that, I've also met
couples who had sex on their second
DATE... and last I checked, their young
marriages are still going well.


I'll be darned!


Obviously, there's no clear answer as to
how early is "too early" when it comes
to having sex with the guy you're
dating.


But here's what IS clear about growing a
relationship after making love for the
first time...


It's What You Do AFTER That Changes Things


That's right - while waiting 3-6 months
before sleeping with him gives you a
much better shot at true love and
happiness... it's what you do AFTER you
have sex for the first time that really
changes things.


After all, the relationship doesn't end
with sex. It just enters a new chapter.
And the question is: Will you keep
growing, nurturing, and moving the
relationship forward?


Will you keep making the right
decisions? Will you faithfully do your
"good girlfriend duties" (and later,
your "good wife duties")? Will you make
the necessary sacrifices to keep the
relationship strong?


Now, since you're part of the
Unforgettable Woman community, I'm
pretty sure YOU'LL be making the right
decisions... maybe about 90-95% of the
time. That's how much faith I have in
you. ;)


But the more pressing question is: Will
HE make the right decisions with you?


Will HE do his "good boyfriend" and
"good husband" duties?


Will HE make the necessary sacrifices,
too?


How To Make Him Do His Share Of The Work


Many women have asked me for the reason
why I usually suggest we date a guy
steadily for 3-6 months before having
sex with him.


The answer is simple: A man is simply
MUCH MORE LIKELY to do his share of the
work if you wait that long.


The reasons are plenty:


(1) Players and liars can only play
their game for two months tops - after
that they get bored, quit, and move on
to their next target.

(2) After 3-6 months, he won't just love
your body or the convenience you bring -
he'll start loving you for YOU

(3) It's enough time to make him think
you're "the one"

(4) It's enough time for him to get a
picture of what you'll probably be like
as his wife

(5) It's enough time for him to get used
to the idea of commitment


...and so on. 


Sure, it's not a perfect guarantee of
love and happiness. But I've seen the
"3-6 month rule" work so well and so
consistently with so many couples that
I'd be crazy not to share it to you.


It's a strange piece of male psychology
that can't be completely explained - it
just works, period.


Now I know some of you are asking:
"Alexandra, I think I blew it - I had
sex with him before 3-6 months. Now my
relationship isn't going anywhere. What
should I do?"


Well, let me give you my answer...


3 Keys To Making A Man Love You Again


If you had sex with him too early, and
he only sees you as a "bed buddy" or
"friend with benefits," and you want to
give your relationship a second
chance...


Then you need to do three big things:


(1) Make him stop seeing you as a sex
object

(2) Make him see your other, more
beautiful qualities

(3) Make him start seeing you as a
potential lover


The good news is that it's VERY possible
to turn a bed buddy into a lover - one
who's ready, willing, and able to take
care of you for the rest of your lives
together.


The bad news? It's not easy.


After all, you're already at a
disadvantage. You were closer to making
him see you as a lover BEFORE you had
sex for the first time... and now,
you've dug yourself a hole.


But that's okay. After all, we're all
about solving problems here at the
Unforgettable Woman community.


And the solution to YOUR problem is in
my eBook collection, Friends With
Benefits,
Why He Likes Her More, Get Over Mr. Wrong.



I've coached several women in the past,
helping them get out of "friends with
benefits" situations and turn their bed
buddies into their boyfriends (and
eventually husbands).


And now, all the advice I gave them is
in my Friends With Benefits eBook
collection - and it can be yours today!


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If that's not good enough, let me make
you a deal...


Feel free to try out the advice in my
Friends With Benefits eBook collection
for 4 weeks. I'm confident it can solve
your problem - or at least make him stop
seeing you as a sex toy - in less than a
month.


But if for any reason it doesn't work
for you, let me know. I'll refund every
penny you spent, but you get to keep the
eBook anyway... just in case the process
takes longer than one month for you. ;)


Sounds good? Then go ahead and get your
copy now!

 
You may also like:
77 Secrets to Save Your Relationship

To the happiness you deserve,
Alexandra Fox


P.S. If you're NOT stuck in a "friends
with benefits" situation... but he's
just not interested in marriage... then
I recommend this eBook
 instead. Getting
That Proposal
 is all about making a man

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